Charities praise Chrissy Teigen for her ‘courage’ at speaking out about pregnancy loss
‘There is no wrong way to react to such a uniquely personal tragedy,’ baby charity Tommy’s states
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Your support makes all the difference.Several organisations have spoken out in support of Chrissy Teigen following the model’s pregnancy loss, saying that it “takes a lot of courage” for her to be “so open” about her experience.
On Thursday 1 October, Teigen shared a post on social media revealing that she and singer John Legend had suffered the loss of their child, after experiencing excessive bleeding during pregnancy.
The 34-year-old wrote that she and her husband are “shocked and in the kind of deep pain you only hear about, the kind of pain we’ve never felt before”, stating: “We were never able to stop the bleeding and give our baby the fluids he needed, despite bags and bags of blood transfusions. It just wasn't enough.”
Teigen and Legend have received numerous messages of support from fans and celebrity friends, with Kim Kardashian West writing on Instagram: “We’re always here for you and love you guys so much,” and Paris Hilton saying: “My heart breaks for you and John.”
However, some people have criticised Teigen for being so open about her loss, with some stating their belief that it is "too soon" for her to be sharing her experience on social media.
But pregnancy, miscarriage and baby loss charities have come out in support of the couple for being to open about their experience. Kate Marsh, midwifery manager at baby charity Tommy’s, has issued a statement on behalf of the organisation about Teigen’s experience and the way in which people have responded to her decision to share her family’s news.
“Baby loss at any stage in pregnancy is one of the most devastating experiences that any family can go through – and it really can happen to any family, but persistent stigma means it’s rarely discussed despite affecting so many,” Ms Marsh said.
“Chrissy Teigen being so open about her loss takes a lot of courage, but it’s vital that we break the silence so that anyone who loses a baby knows: this may feel incredibly lonely, but you are not alone. Friends and family, doctors and midwives, all of us at Tommy’s; we’re here.”
Ms Marsh stressed that “while many people have sent Chrissy messages of support, some have criticised her for sharing, which just highlights the taboo and lack of awareness in society”.
“No matter when you lose a baby, you will likely be mourning the future you imagined together, and many families take photos and other special keepsakes like handprints and footprints,” the Tommy’s representative said.
“Some choose to grieve privately and others find it helps to publicly honour their baby’s short life, but there is no wrong way to react to such a uniquely personal tragedy.”
Petals, a charity that offers counselling services for parents who have suffered baby loss, tweeted that it was “heartbreaking” to read of Teigen and Legend’s loss.
“Petals wants to thank them for taking the brave step of sharing it so openly,” the charity said.
“We are here for anyone who has experienced baby loss – please do reach out if you need us.”
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Stillbirth and neonatal death charity Sands also offered their condolences to the couple, saying that their “thoughts are with them and their family at this time”.
“We are all so saddened by the devastating news that Chrissy Teigen and John Legend’s son Jack has died,” the charity stated, adding the hashtag: “#YouAreNotAlone”.
The Miscarriage Association tweeted: “We’re so very sorry for the loss of your son Jack, @chrissyteigen and @johnlegend”, stating that anyone who is affected by miscarriage can contact the organisation for guidance and support.
In the UK, approximately one in four pregnancies end in loss either during pregnancy or birth, while it is estimated that one in four women have experienced miscarriage, Tommy’s states.
You can contact the Miscarriage Association helpline on 01924 200799 or email the charity at info@miscarriageassociation.org.uk. The helpline is open from 9am to 4pm Monday to Friday.
To contact Tommy’s midwives, you can call the charity’s pregnancy line on 0800 014 7800, open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm, or email midwife@tommys.org.
You can contact the Sands helpline for free by calling 0808 164 3332, from 9.30am to 5.30pm Monday to Friday and from 9.30am to 9.30pm on Tuesday and Thursday evenings. You can also contact the charity’s helpline team by emailing helpline@sands.org.uk.
To enquire about video counselling with charity Petals, you can call 0300 688 0068 or email counselling@petalscharity.org.
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