Why Donald Trump should try Ramadan

Monday morning began a special month for nearly two billion Muslims around the world and nearly three and a half million Muslims in the US – Ramadan had arrived. The month celebrates the first revelations of the Quran to the Prophet Mohammed.

Typically, the White House holds an iftar dinner: the meal that breaks the fast during the holy month. Trump skipped the dinner in 2017 (probably because it would have been hard to celebrate an Islamic religious holiday while simultaneously banning the people that celebrate that holiday from entering the country). A year later the dinner was reinstated.

I don’t know whether the President will host the ceremonial banquet again this year, but it is unlikely he has the faintest idea of what Ramadan is truly about, or how its core values translate to Muslim and non-Muslim families alike. The inhabitants of this country, especially Trump, would probably come out of it for the better if we all practiced the values of Ramadan at least one month a year.

During the Obama administration, the iftar banquet was held in the Benjamin Franklin State Dining Room in the White House to honor one of America’s most prominent religious freedom activists. Benjamin Franklin, former governor of Pennsylvania, one of the founding fathers of the new nation and drafter of the Declaration of Independence and the US Constitution, famously said in his autobiography, “Even if the Mufti of Constantinople were to send a missionary to preach Mohammedanism to us, he would find a pulpit at his service.”

The term “Mohammedanism” is inaccurate and out of touch (Muslims don’t worship Mohammed, after all: they worship the same God as other monotheistic Abrahamic faiths). Nevertheless, Franklin’s quote sets forth one of America’s most important values – that this is a country of remarkable diversity and the freedom which accompanies it to pursue a rich plurality of interests, beliefs and forms of personal expression. That freedom is written in our Constitution in the Bill of Rights.

When I was completing my Bachelor of Arts in Islamic World Studies at DePaul University in Chicago, I made friends with a group of Muslim girls whose families had immigrated from several countries in North Africa. They took me into their homes and treated me like a sister. They took me to countless iftars at DePaul where we listened to readings of the Qur’an, prayed and ate together. It was there, not in books or the news, that I learned the true meaning and challenge of Ramadan.

Ramadan is much more than just fasting from sun-up to sundown – it is a time for intense reflection and restraint. As the Swiss author and scholar Tariq Ramadan said, “The philosophy of fasting calls upon us to know ourselves, to master ourselves, and to discipline ourselves the better to free ourselves. To fast is to identify our dependencies, and free ourselves from them.”

Ramadan is about connecting with hunger, in order to appreciate one’s own blessings and empathize with the indigent, the downtrodden and the oppressed. Ramadan is about harnessing the capitalist monster inside of us and taking a month off from materialistic pursuits like unnecessary shopping (not the grocery store but the mall). And, as my friend Bushra explained, “Ramadan is a time to connect with family and not only abstain from food during the day, but also negative thoughts and words.”

You don’t have to be Muslim to see the value in taking a month to intentionally disconnect from this very materialistic and increasingly partisan society – the worst parts of which have been emboldened since Trump came to power. Stopping to think about what we say and do, what we buy and eat, how we treat people and what we have – now, that is an exercise everyone could benefit from.

Imagine if non-Muslims, including Trump, decided to practice self-restraint, selflessness and love in the spirit of the month of Ramadan. It won’t happen, but wouldn’t it be nice? We can all learn from each other. Ramadan is the perfect example of the opportunity for a critically important lesson in spirituality and humanism, and we need it now more than ever.