Letter: Stop putting so much pressure on our children
This letter appears in the October 4 edition of The Independent
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As parents and educators we find ourselves increasingly concerned at the pressure that is being placed on our children and young people. We worry about the long term impact that this pressure may have on our children’s emotional health, particularly on the most vulnerable in our society. We are concerned to hear of children crying on their way to school, upset that they will not be able to keep up; of parents worried that their four year olds are ‘falling behind’ or of six year olds scared that they ‘might not get a good job’. And we wonder what has happened to that short period in our lives known as ‘childhood’.
The pressure that is put on schools to achieve results, particularly in the tests that now form such a regular feature of a child’s life, has inevitably led to increased pressure on the children themselves. This is not to blame teachers, or schools. Rather, it is to say that with test results becoming such a high stakes feature of our education system, schools are put in a very difficult position. When test results are the key measure of whether a child’s school is ‘good’ or not, we believe that every child’s entitlement to a broad and balanced education is put at risk. We believe all children have the right to become fully rounded individuals, and that in order to help them achieve this, we must protect their emotional well-being, now and for the future. We believe all children have the right to be treated as individuals, and to be allowed to develop at a pace that is right for them, not to meet a Government target.
We call for all those who are equally concerned to speak out against the direction in which education in England, and in other countries around the world, is moving. We call for governments around the world to take into account children’s emotional well-being when they consider the ‘effectiveness’ of schools and other educational settings.
Sue Cowley, parent, author, educator and chair of preschool committee, Bristol, UK
and 427 other signatories (please see below)
Laura Henry, parent, independent early years consultant, trainer, writer and author, London, England
Debra Kidd, parent, teacher and author, England
Hywel Roberts, parent, author and travelling teacher, Yorkshire, England
Elizabeth Holmes, parent, educator and author, England
Tim Taylor, parent and teacher, England
Meraud Ferguson Hand, parent, England
Chris Chivers, grandparent, ex head teacher, consultant, ITT, tutor, blogger, England
Kate Evans, parent, educator and head teacher, Scotland
Nancy Gedge, parent, teacher and blogger, Gloucestershire, England
Emma Hardy, parent, primary teacher, blogger and activist, England
Diane Leedham, parent and teacher, London, England
Mary Cooper, parent and educator, Lancashire, England
Neil Leitch, chief executive, Pre-school Learning Alliance
Michael Rosen, writer and Professor of Children’s Literature, Goldsmiths, University of London, parent of two school-age children
John Wadsworth, senior lecturer in Early Childhood Education, Goldsmiths University of London
Sue Palmer, mother, grandmother, teacher, literacy specialist, author of books on child development, director of Save Childhood
Sue Atkins, former deputy head teacher and class teacher, author, ITV ‘This Morning’ parenting expert
Kevin Courtney, Deputy General Secretary NUT
Liz Bayram, PACEY chief executive
Jill Berry, former head, now educational consultant
Andrew Davis, Durham University
Richard Long, parent, teacher, Maidenhead, England
Jacqueline Massie, parent, England
Erzsi Culshaw, parent and teacher, England
Jenna Welsby, childminder, EYP and parent
Jules Daulby, parent
Craig Lucas, teacher, High Wycombe, England
Carlin Anderson, childminder and parent, England
Josephine Hartley, parent and teacher, Southampton, UK
Nicola Rees, teacher, Hertfordshire, England
Sharon MacInnes, parent and curriculum manager for Drama and Theatre Studies at Bilborough Sixth Form College in Nottingham
Starr Sackstein, parent, high school teacher, NY, NY USA
Andrew Stanley, parent, step-parent, over 30 years in schools
Simone Haughey, parent, teacher, Malvern, UK
Kevin Berry
James Mannion, teacher and parent
Hannah Bradley, teacher, Hampshire
Chris Sloggett, former teacher, London
Fiona Miller, parent, grandparent, primary school teacher, East Midlands
Linda M, retired primary teacher, Southampton, UK
Claire Nicholls, teacher and school governor, Bristol
Sam Jones, parent and teacher, Exeter.
Kathryn Bentley, parent and teacher, Tyne and Wear.
Jo Ince, parent and teacher, London, UK
Dr Jo Ingold, parent of primary school child, lecturer, Leeds, England
Natalia Myerscough, parent and secondary school teacher, Bury, Lancs, UK
Cherrylkd, assistant head teacher, Blackpool, Lancs.
Alison Clarke, mother and head teacher
David Williams, parent, English teacher, literacy coordinator, Swansea. South Wales
Gareth Child, founder www.asdfriendly.org
Stephen Mayo, parent, local press contributor
Kate Thompson, parent, teacher, SENCo and education leader
Cleo Lewis, primary teacher, aunty and active union member, London, England
Joshua Hunt, academy chaplain, Suffolk
Jane Waring, primary teacher & LA inclusion adviser (retired), grandparent
Graham Brickley, parent, step-parent, consultant audiologist, Winchester, Hampshire
Anna Woodward, secondary teacher, Yorkshire
Val Wilf, HLTA , parent, grandparent
Rebecca Stacey, head teacher, England
Catherine Clarke, parent and teaching assistant
Sarah Nicolson, parent and secondary teacher
Claire Slocombe, parent and teacher
Pete Spencer, primary teacher and soon-to-be father
Patricia Oxlade, parent, grandparent, primary teacher, England
Kirsty Wharton, teacher
Martin Maloney, primary teacher
Terry Hoad, retired university teacher, parent, NW London.
Lizzie Cotton, parent and teacher, Sussex, England
Laura Street, parent and teacher, Gosport
Jennifer Macey, retired teacher
Iza Johnson, primary teacher, Northampton
Tina van der Graaf, SENDCO, London
Abi Stokes, parent, teacher, Gloucestershire
Chris Daye, maths teacher with SEN children
David Innes, parent and teacher
Ruth Gould, primary teacher, Wiltshire.
Tanya White, parent, SENCO and year 6 teacher
Caroline Thomas, early years teacher
Amanda Vobes, parent and primary teacher.
Ez Bolton, parent and primary school teacher
Nina Shah-Onwukwe, parent, teacher, union rep, England
Suzanne Finn, mum and primary school teacher
Naomi Fearon, primary school teacher with specialism in SEN and ESBD and activist
Nick Heritage, primary teacher and parent
V.K. Watson, parent and educationalist
Pat Brewin, parent and worker in H. E.
Andrew Black, consultant psychiatrist, Essex, UK
Bonnie Craven, primary school teacher, mum and home educator
Andrea Croce, secondary school teacher
Cheng-Han Wu, parent, teacher, Berkshire
Jo Hutchison, primary school teacher, Nottingham
Helen Bradbury, parent and teacher
Jo Young, primary teacher and parent
Olivia Mifflin, parent
Jordy Jax, parent, SENCO and deputy head teacher, primary PRU
Veronica Kaneti, primary school teacher and parent
Sue and Dave Molloy, recently retired primary head teachers and parents, Stratford upon Avon
Chloe Sheppard, parent and primary school teacher, England
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Kim Biddulph, parent, museum educator and consultant, Buckinghamshire, England
Emma Iley, parent
N. Junker, parent and trainee teacher, London
Debbie Hekkink, parent, ex-primary teacher, Family Support Worker (Barnardos), Bucks, UK
Kate Anderson, parent, grandparent, deputy head teacher, Y6 teacher
Kay Longstaff, parent, SEN teacher
Simona McKenzie, OFSTED registered childminder
Jo Nobbs, parent, children’s services manager, Manchester, UK
Cat Salt, aunt, godmother, secondary school teacher, England
Stuart McQueen, parent and secondary school teacher, Herts, UK
Sara Stanley, Eyfs AST teacher (20 yrs), philosophical play consultant, educator and author, Norfolk UK
Kate Harrold, formerly full-time teacher, now supply teacher and new parent
Ellen McVicar, parent and teacher Isle of Wight
Pooky Knightsmith, parent and PhD in child and adolescent mental health
Matt Wardle, drama for learning practitioner, Manchester
Kerry Jordan-Daus, parent, teacher, teacher educator
Jo Staples, parent and primary school teacher
Joanne Brown, parent, primary school teacher, Yorkshire
Terry Portch, head of Geography in a secondary school and parent
Julie Lilly, mother, teacher, former head teacher
Vanessa Waters, parent, postgraduate student, English teacher, Horncastle, Lincolnshire
Dr Vincent Lien, teacher and bricoleur researcher
S. Lovell-Brown, parent and teacher.
Dave Mingay, special school teacher, union activist, England
Anne Booth, parent and children’s writer
Kevin McLaughlin, primary teacher, artist, musician, maverick, Leicestershire
Leanne Broughton, parent and teacher
Donna Mace, parent, grandparent, elementary teacher, Florida, USA
Penny Best, mother and childminder
Jackie Sandy, parent and primary teacher, Hampshire
Greg Wright, parent, teacher, governor, blogger
Aimee Casson, mother, head of English, Huddersfield, England
Lesley Dixon, parent and teacher, London
Kathryn Mayo, parent and teacher of 20 years
Victoria Jaquiss
Anna Thompsett, parent and primary teacher, Hampshire
Lorraine Abbott, parent, teacher and author
Joanne Bardgett, parent & teacher
Ilona Aronovsky
Linda Ruddock, parent, grandparent and teacher
Amanda Jones, teacher, deputy head teacher, Swansea, South Wales
David Jones, dad and teacher, England
Bo Hetherington, artist teacher, educationalist, parent, blogger
Jane Street, auntie, great auntie, clinical psychologist
Louise Neve, parent, senior teacher in junior school
Rona Heritage, mum and primary school teacher
Jennifer Holman
Sarah Bolton, teacher , England
Linda Street, grandmother and teacher for 30+ years
Lisa Fricker, parent, Ofsted registered childminder, Southampton
Bill Hall, retired teacher (after 33 years), ex- Head of Dept, & PGCE external examiner
Chris Cowling, parent and teaching assistant
D.M. Crosby, Year 6 Class Teacher
Claire Stewart, parent and primary teacher, West Yorkshire
Kenny Frederick – mother, grandmother, retired head teacher, education consultant
Jo Kinloch, parent and nursery owner
Danny Morton, teacher
Mel Coleman, parent and teacher
Vin Wynne, teacher
Amy Boyd, parent and childminder, Cert EYP (Open)
Adam Bubble, parent arts/educator
Jacqueline O’Boyle
Jackie Carey, parent, TA and trainee teacher
Simon Arthur Nash
Gemma Bowers, primary school teacher
Emily Hinkley, primary school teacher
Jayne Martin, parent and teacher
Laura M, mother, tutor, Kent.
Kerry Curtis, teacher and mum
Beth Thomas, parent, preschool teacher, storybook author
Dr Sue Allingham, mother and early years researcher
Lorna Walter, parent, grandparent and retired head teacher
Nina Stone, parent and teacher, Herefordshire
Liz Warren
Jane Harrison, nursery owner, parent and grandparent
Louise Brooks, parent, grandparent and teacher
Alison Vrasier, mum, teacher of y6 and leader
Jeni Hooper, child and educational psychologist
Jim Parker, parent, class teacher and coach
Sue Reilly, mother, manager of a packaway preschool
Sophie Connell, parent and primary teacher
Claire Foreman, English teacher and new parent
Rachel Elvidge
Paula Harker
Sian Bloor, parent, teacher and union division secretary
Nathan Archer, Montessori teacher
Chris Houseman, secondary school teacher and parent
Claudia Ashton, parent and early years/KS1 teacher
Eleanor Anderson, parent and EYFS teacher
Juliet Robertson, education consultant, blogger and author
Anne van der Graaf, teacher, parent, grandparent. Sydney, Australia
J. Teehan
Julie Cigman, early years consultant and author, parent and grandparent
Matt Payne, parent and teacher in training
Bob Johnson, retired teacher/advisor and trade unionist, father
Margaret Robertson, pastoral teacher, “named person”, Scotland.
Helen Jenkins, playgroup supervisor, EYP and mother
Sarah Ruse, Scottish teacher, mother and auntie
Paula Malone, teacher and soon-to-be parent
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Anna Clark, deputy head and mum
Penny Webb, Ofsted registered childminder, campaigner and blogger, mother and grandmother
Cathy Higgins, parent, head teacher
Andrew Stanley, over 30 years in education, parent
Sarah Goodwin, parent
Paula Chambers, NNEB, former social services family support worker, mother, owner of childminding service, England
Belinda Johnson, ex-teacher, now childminder
Sean Delahoy, parent, head of English in Herefordshire
Rachel Faul, mum, clinical psychologist, Shropshire
Gemma Watkins, mum and registered childminder
Lisa T., former teacher
Dawn Kenison, childminder, Orpington, Kent
Ayesha Foster, parent and social worker
Sarah Janes, mum, Southampton England
Sue Hale, worked as teacher, head teacher and local authority early years advisor
Cristina Milos, teacher
Joanna Moore, parent and primary school parent governor, England
Karen Lail, parent, teacher, SENCo and education leader
Colin Richards, former HMI
Chris Creswell, parent, grandparent, retired teacher, Stone, Staffordshire
Tim Walker, parent, educator and blogger, Finland
Lindsay Browning, mother, teacher and head of year, Watford, Hertfordshire
Karen Mitchell, Carlton, Leeds
Dulcie Ogilvie, ex-primary school head teacher and grandmother
Karen Mitchell, mum
Teresa Roche, head teacher, leader of education and author
Lorraine Shipston, mum, Lincoln, UK
Joshua Meyer, Tennessee, US
Mike Watson, parent, teacher, assistant head teacher, consultant and blogger, Lincolnshire, UK
Joy Groom, teacher
Mark Anderson, parent, teacher and author
George Gilchrist, head teacher
Sue Williams, childminder, mother and grandmother
Ian Coulson, parent and teacher, Newcastle upon Tyne
Jen Kenny, teacher and pastoral leader, Milton Keynes, UK
Jenny Holden
Nihala Zaidi, EYP, Early years
Tracy Seed
Marie Peacock, mother, childminder, campaigner with Mothers at Home Matter
Colleen Else, grandparent, former regional coordinator Dyslexia Association, past treasurer PTA, company accountant
Ray Wilcockson
Lindsay Clayton, mum, childminder and potential primary school teacher
Sarah Srisaeng, parent and lifelong learner
Claire Brunner, early years educator and parent
Lesley Ormerwood
Kathryn Booth, teaching assistant and grandparent
Karyn Lish
Sue Chambers, early years consultant
Helen Moylett
Ffion Greenow
Jeni Parker, parent, dyslexia teacher
Karl Bentley, senior lecturer in primary education
Marcelle Hoare, parent and KS1 teacher
Rodger Caseby
C Dawson, primary school teacher and mum
Nuala Guiney, stay at home mother, Harrow, England
Abigail Nelson, parent and teacher, Cardiff
Janice Savage
Annie Richardson, granny, EYP and university lecturer
Laura Dimmock, stay at home mum, West Midlands
Rebecca Wozencroft, parent, teacher, England
Marina Mcauley, mother
Linda Jennings, parent, grandparent, auntie and registered childminder
Maureen Burgoyne, grandmother, Montessori school principal and Montessori teacher trainer
Debbie Greatorex, parent, grandparent, early years teacher
Emma Salt, mum and part time alternative provision teacher
Clare Paine, ex-secondary teacher and mum
G. Hughes
Fran Nantongwe
Ruth Hayes, parent, grandparent and retired early years teacher
Emms Whitford, mum to home educated boy
Mel King, mother
Suzanne Axelsson, parent and teacher, Sweden
Jane Campbell, mum and a school business manager in a primary school
Pat Whitley, grandparent and retired teacher
Alex Thomsen
Dom Hughes, parent and teacher, London
John Rees, parent, governor and educational consultant
Kate Nash, parent and teacher
Alex Weatherall, parent and secondary science teacher
Alex Bellars, teacher and uncle
Anna Halford, primary school teacher and mum
Tanya Thomas, parent
Jonny Mitchell
Mike Baker, parent, London
Alison Monday, parent and ex-primary teacher
Melanie Coyle, teacher and step-mum
I. Thompson, parent and campaigner for Mothers at Home Matter
Daniel Banche, parent of pre-schooler, Ash, Surrey
Simon Goldsworthy
Sue Maughan, West Yorkshire
Anita Sahota, parent, day nursery owner, England
Deborah Fielden, parent and early years consultant, Staffordshire
Clare Hollis, mum and primary school teacher, East Midlands
Jane Hutchison, parent, teacher and trainee forest school leader, Cambridge, England
Emma Iley, teacher and parent, Witney, Oxon
Lynda Brinn, grandparent, Plymouth, England
Max Hyde, grandparent and secondary school teacher of 37 years
Sarah Gough, independent childminder and mum, Lowestoft, Suffolk
Jutta Hepworth, parent, grandparent and head of kindergarten
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Jane Hallman, primary teacher
Kate McKenna, parent and children’s worker, Tring, Hertfordshire
Steve Russell
Philip Hood, lecturer, early years researcher and grandparent
Leoarna Mathias, associate lecturer, chair of preschool committee, primary school governor and mother
Philip Wall, teacher, advisory teacher and head teacher
Dr Suzanne Zeedyk, developmental psychologist, Dundee, Scotland
Simon Winder, cricket coach and former scout leader
Pauline Alderdice
Beatrice Merrick
Susan Linn, Ed.D, author
Sophie Hodgkinson, primary teacher, Nottingham
Deborah McNelis, early brain development specialist, United States
Rosie Ko Turner, parent and Educator, West Sussex, England
Jane Couzens, ex-teacher and mother
Sarah Whittaker, Ofsted registered independent childminder, parent and grandparent
Amanda Salt, Ofsted registered independent childminder, early years educator, parent
Marianne Last, grandmother
Debbie Alcock
Rebecca Antwhistle, parent and psychologist
Anna Smith, parent
Erica Evans
Jacqueline White, parent and independently registered childminder
Amanda G.T., governor and class teacher, London
D. Locksley, educator
Eszter Bove, former primary teacher turned home educator
Francesca Mckay, Parent, Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Sal Smith
Louise Snowdon - teacher and mum
Pat Townshend, training manager, Pre-school Learning Alliance
Nicola Morris
Ruth Gill, parent, lecturer and researcher. Staffordshire
R. Pennington
Jo McIntosh, parent, early years practitioner
S. Dixon, parent, grandparent and school administrator, Surrey
Melanie Grabowski, parent and education assistant, Perth, Western Australia
Ciara Brehony, parent, Wicklow, Ireland
Ann Gravells, author, teacher and training consultant
Amii Spark, early years practitioner
Ian Beckett, parent, lifelong learning worker and local politician, Harlow, Essex
Sandy Sammon
David Wright, parent
Steven Hales, grandparent, ex primary school head teacher, part-time teacher, independent adviser, Norfolk, England
Cassie Emmott, parent, actress, workshop leader, home educator, Hertfordshire, UK
Sylvia Johnson, parent and grandparent, Lymm, Cheshire, England
Anna Roberts, parent
Bridget Chapman, assistant branch secretary, Lambeth NUT
Clare Goodyear, parent, childminder and school governor
Jen Smalley, parent, teaching assistant, future teacher
Naomi Richards, life coach for children and parents, London, UK
Siobhan Strode, parent, wife of a primary teacher, early years teacher
Julie Heaps, parent, teacher and grandparent
Marlene Greenwood, author and illustrator
Lucy Evans, registered childminder
P. O’Boyle, teacher
Michael Bassey, emeritus professor of Education, Nottingham Trent University, author
Rachel Bannister, parent
Claire Masters, teacher, Newcastle, England
Christine Eburne, teacher, tutor, nanny and aunt, London
Jenni Goodwin, nan, mother, ex-child minder
Andy Robinson, KS2 teacher
Mary Cryan, mother, grandmother and education lecturer, Hull
Molly Bertrand, adoptive parent
Stephen Livings, parent, primary school teacher, NUT member and rep
J.Brownlee, support staff, Ellesmere Port, Cheshire
Andy Woolley, former teacher, school governor and South West NUT secretary
Sarah Needham, parent, teacher and director, Northumberland
Samantha White, parent and teacher, Sussex, England
Gawain Little, parent and teacher
Joanne Smith
Helen Battelley, dance and movement consultant, Norfolk
Charlie Rice, grandparent
Vicky Heggie, deputy manager nursery, university student
Susan M. Coles
Martin Nield, parent, manager
Steve Padgett
Caroline Thomas
Diana Blaj, teacher and parent, Nottingham, England
Eylan Ezekiel, teacher, parent, edupreneur, publisher, MA (History of Childhood),
Oxford, UK
Libby Lawson
Lotte Hunter, childcare operations director
Amy Sharp, teacher, activist and governor
Zara Tang, trainee teacher, North West England
Karen Locke, parent, Townsville, Qld, Australia
Sarah Marchant, early years teacher
Sarah Fillingham, area manager, day nurseries group
Allison Cliff, mum and teaching assistant
Suzi O’Neill, director
Sue Rose, childminder, Surrey
Maria Dalla Costa, parent, London
Theresa Murray, school office manager, Nottingham
Lynne Dalby, work with excluded children in KS3 & 4
Alison Cole, EYFS co-ordinator/ academy nursery manager and EY trainer
Timothy Toogood, parent and early childhood researcher, Canberra, Australia
Nichola Irwin
Rebecca Martland - Ofsted registered childminder
Peter Croft
Emma Cooney
Anastasia Murphy, general manager, nurseries group
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Lynne Metcalf, parent, childminder, Teesside, UK
Marisa Pollett, parent and teacher
Martine Strickland, parent
Kim Jarred, parent and home educator, Surrey, England
Mara Musso, parent, London, UK
Vivien Sabel, UKCP registered psychotherapist/clinical supervisor, psychotherapy lecturer, author
Sally Bailey - SENCO, England
Claire Morley
Fatima D’Oyen, parent, author, teacher, head teacher of Muslim Montessori school, Leicester
Tracey Stevens, parent and teacher
Dr Pam Jarvis
John Adams, dad, blogger, writer and stay at home parent
Sheila Russell, parent, grandparent and former teacher,
Clare Gendall, Sen trainee teacher, parent, Devonj England
Ross Mountney, parent, home educator and author
Lucy Rochester, aunty and sister of a teacher
Jo Leitch, parent, Wantage
Sarah Tindal, teacher and parent
Carmen Haselup, parent, founder of The Rainbow Library, education activist
Helen Andrews, parent and a former English teacher
Becky White MEd , former teacher, home educator, foster carer
Catherine Pearson, teacher, parent, Masters in Inclusive Education student
Amy McMillan, parent and primary school teacher
David Hemsley
Jane Comeau, early years teacher, registered childminder, PACEY chair elect
Louise Williams, parent, childminder, occupational therapist, England
Hilary Willgress, childminding development worker and parent
James Williams, lecturer in education, University of Sussex
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