Letter: Choice of service

Rev Ian Black
Tuesday 12 August 1997 18:02 EDT
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Sir: Margot Thompson, of the Prayer Book Society, is not correct when she says that families have a legal right to "stipulate" the form of service to be used at baptisms, marriages and funerals (Letters, 8 August). It is one thing to have a legal right to express a preference, quite another to be able to insist.

Canon B3 (4) is quite clear that the decision as to which form of service is to be used lies with the minister who is to conduct the service. It goes on to provide that where the parties cannot agree the bishop shall decide.

In practice this is a matter of concern to a very small group. The vast majority of those I meet for baptism, wedding or funeral are thoroughly "unchurched" when it comes to liturgy. Talk of the Book of Common Prayer or the Alternative Service Book is gobbledegook to them. What does help is talking about the content of the service for the particular occasion. In that I do not see myself as dealing with "customers" but entering into a pastoral relationship. This starts where they are and seeks to relate the gospel to it and move us on a little further in our journey of faith.

The Rev IAN BLACK

Faversham, Kent

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