Church of England should allow same-sex marriage, says Bishop of Oxford
The clergyman said he wanted to acknowledge the pain and distress of gay people in the life of the Church.
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Your support makes all the difference.The Church of England should allow same-sex marriage for both its congregation and its clergy, the Bishop of Oxford has said.
The Rt Rev Steven Croft said he wanted to acknowledge the “acute pain and distress of LGBTQ+ people in the life of the Church”.
In a lengthy essay, the bishop said he was sorry that the church has been “so slow” to “reach better decisions and practice on these matters” and apologised for his own views being “slow to change”.
But the bishop also said clergy must have the option not to opt in to any new arrangements, saying that it should be recognised that it is a “legitimate and honourable position” for those who want to keep a “traditional view of marriage and human sexuality”.
I am sorry that my own views were slow to change and that my actions, and lack of action, have caused genuine hurt, disagreement and pain
He wrote: “I need to acknowledge, right at the beginning of this essay, the acute pain and distress of LGBTQ+ people in the life of the Church.
“I am sorry that, corporately, we have been so slow as a Church to reach better decisions and practice on these matters. I am sorry that my own views were slow to change and that my actions, and lack of action, have caused genuine hurt, disagreement and pain. I remain on a very steep learning curve.
“Listening to this pain and distress has been key in my own journey and to the changes in my own views.”
Listing the changes he wished to see, the bishop said the church should allow for the provision of public services of blessing for same-sex civil partnerships and marriages, give freedom of conscience to clergy and ordinands “to order their relationships appropriately”, give freedom of conscience to clergy to enter into their own same-sex civil marriage, and to remove the legal barriers to the solemnisation of same-sex marriage in the church.
He insisted this freedom of conscience should also be applied to those who disagree with his proposed changes, with no clergy or parishes being forced to opt in to the new possible arrangements.
He called for a “differentiation of provision and oversight for those clergy and parishes who believe that, in conscience, they need to distance themselves from the parts of the Church that welcome and affirm same-sex relationships.”
Speaking of those he described as holding “more conservative positions”, he said he did not want to see people feeling excluded as a result of any changes.
He wrote: “They are sisters and brothers in Christ. It would be a tragedy if a journey towards inclusion for one group of Christians became an experience of exclusion for another.”
In August, the Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby, acknowledged that there are “deep differences” within the church, as he faced criticism for reaffirming a 1998 Anglican declaration rejecting same-sex marriage.
Comedian and television presenter Sandi Toksvig, who is gay, said the lives of LGBTQ+ people were “at stake” following the religious leader’s “horrible mistake” in reaffirming a resolution which stated that marriage is “between a man and a woman”, and that same-sex relationships are “incompatible with scripture”.
Mr Welby responded by saying that the Anglican Communion, of which the Church of England is part, is a “complicated group of churches” with “deep differences in many areas”.
But he told the Lambeth Conference, a meeting of Anglican bishops which took place this summer, that he could not and would not punish churches for conducting gay marriages.
The Church of England website states that while ministers cannot carry out or bless same-sex marriages “your local church is still there for you” with people being welcomed there to pray “or ask us to pray for you”.
The Bishop of Oxford’s essay on Thursday comes just days after a Catholic priest in Ireland gave a controversial sermon against same-sex marriage which prompted some worshippers to walk out.
Retired priest Fr Sean Sheehy told worshippers at St Mary’s Church in Listowel at the weekend that gay couples were sinful, describing sex between two people of the same gender as “mortal sin”.
He has since been banned from saying Mass after the Bishop of Kerry rebuked his comments as unchristian.
Fr Sheehy later doubled down on his comments, telling a local radio station that openly gay politicians who support same-sex marriage would “go to hell” if they “don’t repent their sin and seek forgiveness”.