Prince Harry’s requests for family help met with ‘total silence or total neglect’
‘I know I’m not going to get from my family what I need’, admits Prince Harry
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Your support makes all the difference.Prince Harry has claimed that efforts to seek help from his family about the extent and impact of media intrusion on he and Meghan failed, stating, “every request was met with total silence or total neglect”.
His shocking comments form part of a new Apple TV+ docu-series with Oprah Winfrey called The Me You Can’t See, which focuses on mental health.
Speaking candidly about issues involving his mother, Princess Diana’s death, and his own coping mechanisms involving drugs and alcohol, the Duke also spoke about Meghan’s suicidal thoughts following intensive media scrutiny and vilification.
He said: “Within the first eight days of our relationship being made public was when they said, ‘Harry’s girl almost straight outta Compton’. And that her ‘exotic DNA’ will be thickening the royal blood, we would get followed, photographed, chased, harassed.
“The clicking of cameras and flashes of cameras makes my blood boil, it makes me angry, it takes me back to what happened to my mum and what I experienced when I was a kid.
“But it went to a whole new depth, with not just traditional media, it was also social media platforms as well.”
Prince Harry said that the experience left him feeling “completely helpless”.
He added: “I thought my family would help, but every single ask, request, warning, whatever it is, just got met with total silence or total neglect.”
In January 2020, the Duke said it had become so bad that Meghan outlined her plans for suicide.
He said: “I was ashamed to go to my family because to be honest with you, like a lot of other people my age can probably relate to, I know I’m not going to get from my family what I need.”
His comments serve as another damning blow to the Royal Family, which Harry spoke openly about in his explosive interview with Meghan Markle and Oprah Winfrey in March this year.
Describing royal life as a “toxic environment”, Meghan and Harry said that concerns were raised from within the royal family about the colour of Archie’s skin [Harry confirmed that neither the Queen or Prince Phillip said this, however].
Harry also revealed that his father Prince Charles “stopped taking [his] calls” after he and Meghan stepped back from senior royal duties.
And he described his relationship with his brother Prince William as “space”, stating that they were on different paths.
The Independent has approached Buckingham Palace for comment.
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