How grieving Lady Gabriella Windsor helped Kate plan Christmas carol service

Lady Gabriella said to have been ‘very touched’ to have been asked to join the princess’s team

Andy Gregory
Saturday 21 December 2024 19:07 EST
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Lady Gabriella Windsor has helped the Princess of Wales plan her annual Christmas carol service while grieving the death of her husband earlier this year, it has emerged.

During the summer, Kate invited Lady Gabriella to be a part of the team organising her annual Christmas event at Westminster Abbey, which featured a host of stars such as Paloma Faith and Gregory Porter.

The event, named Together at Christmas, was dedicated to those who have shown love, kindness and empathy to others in their communities, and the princess’s gesture to the daughter of Prince and Princess Michael of Kent echoed this theme.

Michael Middleton, Lady Gabriella of Windsor and Pippa Middleton arrive for the Together At Christmas carol service
Michael Middleton, Lady Gabriella of Windsor and Pippa Middleton arrive for the Together At Christmas carol service (Jordan Pettitt/PA Wire)

Lady Gabriella, also known as Ella to her friends, supported Kate and played an advisory role with the organising team around the music performances that featured during the service.

A source said about Lady Gabriella: “She was very touched and grateful to the princess to be asked to contribute to her very special concert, and that she felt honoured to do so.”

Kate is understood to have been incredibly grateful for her contribution.

Lady Gabriella’s financier husband Thomas Kingston died from a head injury on 25 February, and a gun was found near his body at his parents’ home in the Cotswolds.

A coroner concluded in October he took his own life and during the inquest his widow warned about the effects of drugs used to treat mental health problems after the hearing was told Mr Kingston was prescribed drugs following complaints of trouble sleeping following stress at work.

Thomas Kingston was found with a catastrophic head injury in February
Thomas Kingston was found with a catastrophic head injury in February (Frank Augustein/PA)

The carol service was staged on 6 December and, in addition to performances by Paloma Faith and Gregory Porter, it also saw singer-songwriter JP Cooper perform with the Soul Sanctuary Choir, with new singing talent Olivia Dean also on the bill.

Kate and William were joined by their children Prince George, 11, Princess Charlotte, nine, and Prince Louis, aged six, who all held candles during the service, as did the other guests who included members of the monarchy.

Olympic cycling champion Sir Chris Hoy, who is terminally ill with prostate cancer, lit a candle as did Lindsey Burrow, the wife of former rugby league star Rob Burrow who died in June following a much-publicised battle with motor neurone disease.

Princess Beatrice arrives for the Together At Christmas carol service at Westminster Abbey in London
Princess Beatrice arrives for the Together At Christmas carol service at Westminster Abbey in London (Isabel Infantes/PA)

Readings were given by actors Richard E Grant; Downton Abbey star Michelle Dockery; Sophie Okonedo, nominated for an Oscar for her role in the film Hotel Rwanda; and Olympic swimming gold medallist Adam Peaty.

The service will be broadcast as part of the programme Royal Carols: Together At Christmas, screened on ITV1 and ITVX on Christmas Eve, and will feature three films about the stories of people and organisations who have inspired, counselled and comforted others in their times of need.

Kate has recorded a voiceover for the start of the programme, reading extracts from a letter she wrote about love and empathy that was included with the event’s order of service.

The Princess of Wales shakes hands with actor Richard E. Grant at Westminster Abbey
The Princess of Wales shakes hands with actor Richard E. Grant at Westminster Abbey (REUTERS)

She will say: “The Christmas story encourages us to consider the experiences and feelings of others.

“It also reflects our own vulnerabilities and reminds us of the importance of giving and receiving empathy, as well as just how much we need each other in spite of our differences.

“Above all else, it encourages us to turn to love, not fear. The love that we show ourselves and the love we show others. Love that listens with empathy, love that is kind and understanding, love that is forgiving, and love that brings joy and hope.”

Additional reporting by PA

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