Majority of people think face-to-face flattery is dying out, poll claims
Showing appreciation deemed important to success of relationships with partners and friends
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Your support makes all the difference.Most people in the UK feel face-to-face flattery is “dying out” as the digital age takes over, a poll has claimed.
Despite fear of physical conversation disappearing, 82 per cent of those surveyed said they feel most comfortable when paying compliments and accepting praise face-to-face.
But there appears to be a generational disparity in our preferences – half of 18-24 year olds feel equally at ease when giving a compliment via a text message or social media.
Regardless of how they are communicated, the poll of 2,000 adults suggested people feel they give compliments more frequently than they receive them – respondents claimed to dole out an average of six compliments each week, receiving only four in return.
Showing appreciation was deemed important to the success of relationships with partners and friends by 80 per cent of those polled.
Psychologist Dr Linda Papadopoulos said: “The ability to give and receive compliments is a key component of social life allowing us to connect, strengthen relationships and show appreciation.
“The research suggests we are happier to receive compliments face to face rather than online and this is because the experience of seeing non-verbal cues and hearing verbal nuances feels more authentic.”
The majority of those polled most frequently pay compliments to their romantic partner, however one in five reported complimenting friends more often.
The most common praise to friends included, “you make me laugh”, “you look younger than your age” and “I like your haircut”.
While popular compliments to and from partners were found to be “you’re beautiful”, “you’re a great cook” and “you’ve lost weight”.
However, the study found 30 per cent of approving remarks given aren’t genuine and more than one third feel if someone does say something nice they feel pressured to return the praise.
“Compliments allow us to show that we are aware and conscious of those around us and demonstrate that we value them,” Dr Papadopoulos added.
“This is a ‘win win – people benefit from receiving and giving them – so if you want to feel good and make someone else’s day in the process take the time to notice what you like about them and let them know.”
SWNS