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24 best gifts for your mother-in-law that are bound to wow, from skincare to jewellery

If your mother-in-law has everything, allow these present ideas to help this Christmas

Eva Waite-Taylor
Monday 18 December 2023 11:01 EST
From skincare to home fragrance, this guide will make present-buying easy
From skincare to home fragrance, this guide will make present-buying easy (iStock/The Independent)
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If you’ve begun the search for your partner’s mum, you’ll already know how difficult it is to find the best gift for your mother-in-law. But at least you’ve got us on hand to help. Much like buying for your own mother figure, it’s important to think about the presents that are thoughtful and things she’s unlikely to buy for herself.

If she’s got grandchildren, reach for a frame with a photo showcasing the whole clan. The host with the most will appreciate an upgrade to their tablecloth collection, and the fashionistas will love a patterned oversized scarf (who doesn’t love something snuggly?).

Leaning into her hobbies will also help you nail the perfect gift. Is she a fitness fanatic? Treat her to a Fitbit or upgrade her athleisure collection. A true home bird? Consider a piece of art or candle for creating a cosy ambience. Green-fingered pro? A decorative pot will make the perfect pressie.

Thankfully, the search for the best gift for your mother-in-law has never been easier with this gift guide. You’re welcome.

How we tested

Enlisting the help of our IndyBest team of testers, we reviewed a range of different gifts for mothers-in-law, assessing each one for quality and whether it would put a smile on her face. During the process, we considered the price and if it was something she’d buy for herself. Keep scrolling for the presents that made the cut.

The best gifts for your mother-in-law for 2023 are:

  • Best gift for your mother-in-law overall – Tartan Blanket Co lambswool oversized scarf in camel houndstooth: £72, Tartanblanketco.com
  • Best luxury skincare gift – Kiehl's midnight recovery concentrate: £47, Johnlewis.com
  • Best candle – Diptyque figuier candle, medium: £77, Diptyqueparis.com
  • Best for fitness fanatics – Fitbit inspire 3 activity tracker: £69.99, Johnlewis.com
  • Best print – Astrid Wilson Copenhagen print: £30, Astridwilson.com

Tartan Blanket Co lambswool oversized scarf in camel houndstooth

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  • Best: Overall

If your mother-in-law loves to bundle up in style during the winter months, consider gifting her a luxurious scarf from family-run Scottish brand Tartan Blanket Co. Made from incredibly soft lambswool, there are plenty of different types to choose from depending on her style, but for a design that is both classic and fashion-led, we recommend this houndstooth design. There’s more to this scarf than just its good looks though – it’s made with unique crimps that generate air pockets to repel moisture and keep you warm, while the wool itself is gathered from a lamb’s first shearing, making it super smooth and strong. Ideal for adding that extra bit of warmth to any outfit, we particularly love that it’s oversized, meaning you can wear it a number of ways.

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Kiehl's midnight recovery concentrate

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  • Best: Luxury skincare gift

If you want to treat your mother-in-law to a luxe skincare product, look no further than Kiehl’s midnight recovery serum. Bursting with lipids, antioxidants and vitamins, we found that it stopped our skin from drying out overnight. One or two drops of the serum go a long way, with a small bottle lasting roughly three months with regular use. And while it took a few uses for us to see the results, we were impressed by how it looked after our skin. While it’s a little bit pricey, cheaper brands never came close to giving us that morning glow.

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Astrid Wilson Copenhagen print

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  • Best: Print

If they’re an interiors lover, prints from Astrid Wilson’s eponymous brand can inject joy into any room. Her flower market range is an Instagram favourite thanks to the bold motifs, colourful palettes and botanical-inspired designs. If your mother-in-law has a particular attachment to a place, the range of globe-trots from Santa Barbara and Tunis to Amsterdam and Seoul, embody the feeling in each city.

Brightening up a room without dominating it, our favourite is the Copenhagen print which features an abstract floral motif on a blue background with matching azure typography. Beautifully printed and packaged nicely in a tube, the entire range is available in three sizes (30cm x 40cm, 50cm x 70cm and 70cm x 100cm).

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Diptyque figuier candle, medium

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  • Best: Candle

A classic case of a candle being too pretty to light, Diptyque’s fig tree scent is packaged in a deliciously wintery-hued jar complete with matching green wax. Crafted to be reminiscent of a fig tree, the scent gives off bark, leafy freshness and a subtle fruity fragrance. Warming and indulgent, it easily fills a medium to large space.

While the candle is at its best 20 minutes in, it releases its fig fragrance gradually and persistently over the course of its 75-hour(!) burn. As well as smelling delightful, Diptique’s jars are much-loved for looking so decadent on display – and its fig fragrance is no exception. Thanks to its large size, your mother-in-law can enjoy it long beyond Christmas.

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Miss Dior blooming bouquet eau de toilette

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  • Best: Eau de toilette

We’re in love with this delicate perfume from Dior. Lightly botanical, it features notes of rose and mandarin, and we wore it day and night. It never failed to bag us compliments. There is, however, one real downside – and it’s a fairly big one – the blooming bouquet doesn’t last very long. As it is an eau de toilette, we found it to be extremely light, and while it remained on our skin for a working day, we could barely smell it after a couple of hours.

  1.  £102 from Boots.com
Prices may vary
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Lepelclub tablecloth

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  • Best: For the host with the most

While a tablecloth might not seem like the most exciting gift, wait until you see this one. The design from Lepel Club boasts a frilly trim, which is far more fun than standard options and feels particularly luxe. It comes in three different sizes – 225cm x 180cm, 225cm x 225cm and 300cm x 200cm – and will turn her table into a total showstopper. A word of warning though, you’ll probably love it so much that you’ll want to keep it for yourself as opposed to putting it under the tree for her, so you may as well treat yourself to one too.

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Apatchy London leather crossbody bag

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  • Best: Leather crossbody bag

Crossbody bags are all the rage right now, and independent fashion brand Apatchy London’s leather item is a stylish, modern take that oozes quality. It’s small, comfortable and fits all of our essentials inside, including a phone, purse and make-up. Coming well-packaged on arrival inside a handsome Apatchy dust bag, it also comes with two detachable straps, so we were able to switch it up depending on the occasion and could wear it as a crossbody piece or over our shoulder. A real statement piece for any mother-in-law.

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The White Company Seychelles home scenting gift set

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  • Best: Home fragrance gift

A fragrance gift set is a welcome addition to any home, especially when it’s one from The White Company. While you can pick up a range of different scents, our favourite has to be the Seychelles collection which has notes of bergamot and orange, fresh coconut, warming amber and buttery vanilla. The set contains everything they will need to create a soothing aroma throughout the house including a candle, room spray and reed diffuser. A universally appealing scent, you can’t go wrong with this fantastic gift. You can sign up for restock notifications.

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Ernest Jones silver cubic zirconia open circle stud earrings

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  • Best: Jewellery gift

This pretty pair of circle-shaped sterling silver earrings are encrusted with cubic zirconia stones and have a height and width of 0.8in. Our tester has been enjoying wearing the round earrings as a glittering addition to regular outfits, as well as for special occasions. We’ve noted how much they catch the light, making this a sparkly jewellery piece which is ideal for the festive season. Plus, they are lightweight and sit comfortably in the earlobes, whether she has a single or several piercings. We think they look more expensive than their under-£50 price tag too. The stud earrings arrive presented in an Ernest Jones box, which will add extra opening appeal to this special gift on Christmas Day.

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Soapsmith Bergenhaus bath soak

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  • Best: For giving the gift of luxury

This special edition vegan-friendly Christmas bath soak is an ideal festive relaxation treat from independent brand Soapsmith. Presented in a sizeable glass jar promising lots of use and it contains a wooden scoop for adding the contents into running water. The essential oil scent ingredients include fig, ginger lily, jasmine, amber and sandalwood and our tester has enjoyed taking in its warming, aromatic notes. It also contains dead sea salt and coconut milk powder for helping to smooth and soften skin, and our tester has loved luxuriating in a bath filled with this product, which is somewhere between a salt and powder composition. As an extra special touch, it contains dried flowers which float prettily on the bath’s surface while you soak. Just add a candle for the ultimate unwind.

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Oliver Bonas aster star etched champagne coupes

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  • Best: Champagne glasses

Delicately etched with stars and laced with gold tones around the rim, these glasses are sure to add some extra merriment to future special occasions. As soon as we took them out of the box, we were impressed with the design and excited at the prospect of a toast even before popping the cork. Unlike champagne flutes, which normally hold 175ml of liquid, these coupes have a 350ml capacity so your mother-in-law can pour herself a generous serve. Presented in a chic box, these would be easy to wrap and present in one stylish package.

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Bialetti double wall capri glasses, set of two

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  • Best: For slow coffee drinkers

While charming chinaware and novelty mugs are one way to please the tea and coffee drinkers, these glasses are something a little different. Made with a double-wall design, not only will Bioletti’s glasses make your mother-in-law’s cappuccinos and herbal teas look especially appealing as they seemingly float above the base, but the design makes them great for keeping hot drinks hot for slightly longer than usual. A game changer for the slow coffee sippers and forgetful tea drinkers who always find their brews below optimum drinking temperature before they can finish them. We also found that they didn’t feel scorching hot to the touch like some mugs can do, while the capacious 350ml size is perfect for filling with a sizable cuppa.

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Neom happiness reed diffuser

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  • Best: Home fragrance

It’s really hard to miss with a home fragrance present, so long as it smells divine. Marrying pure essential oils such as neroli, mimosa and lemon to create this zingy and uplifting scent, Neom has certainly ticked that box with this reed diffuser.

This scent hails from the “scents to make you happy” range, one of the well-being benefits the brand focuses on. The smell took a couple of days to really come through in our bedroom and we loved how bright but subtle it was. If you know your mother-in-law prefers a stronger scent, it’s worth recommending that they flip the reeds around every once in a while, or even daily, to really boost their intensity. If they’re just as pleased with the scent as we are, they can purchase the fragrance and reed refills and use the diffuser again and again. What’s not to love?

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Rise & Fall the crisp and cool organic classic duvet set bundle

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  • Best: Bedding set

Good bedding can be hard to come by but this set is up there with some of the most luxurious we’ve ever had the pleasure of catching forty winks in. The crisp and cool bundle has a 400 thread count and is highly breathable, making it a great option for anyone who tends to overheat at night. The set comes with one duvet cover, two standard size pillowcases and, perhaps our favourite item, a fitted sheet. But, what’s so exciting about a fitted sheet? Well, this one comes with extra-wide and grippy elastic, which makes it a breeze to put on even the heaviest of mattresses and means it stays in place all night long – it’s a total gamechanger.

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Oliver Bonas dalloway dash green plant pot

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  • Best: For plant parents

This supersize stoneware plant pot will be a winner if she favours colour and pattern. We love how the striking beige and glossy green pattern demands attention when set down in our living space. There’s a nice contrast to see and feel between the glazed green elements and the slightly rough, beige design which awards interest, while the small ceramic feet raise the design slightly for a more delicate silhouette. We popped our Zamioculcas plant (£10, Patchplants.com) inside the pot but, as long as their plant will fit within the 15.5cm diameter here, your giftee can place any plant that they like inside.

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Graham and Green antiqued mirrored box

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  • Best: For the mother-in-law who has everything

If your mother-in-law has everything, we think you’ll be on to a winner with this chic mirrored box. A decorative present that’s practical, too – you can never have too many storage options for jewellery, trinkets and keepsakes – the box has been given an antique aesthetic with a foxed-glass effect. When closed, the lid is secured with a simple bolt-style clasp; when open, it’s held upright by a chain affixed to the inside, which is a nice touch. Measuring 7cm x 25cm x 13cm and complete with a brass frame, the box will meld seamlessly into all manner of home interior styles.

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Aēsop reverence duo

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  • Best: Luxury handwash

For a luxury gift that she’s unlikely to buy for herself yet will enjoy every single day, you simply can’t go wrong with the Aesop reverence duo. Trust us when we say hand washing has never been better. As you’d expect from the brand, the soap smells divine and gently exfoliates the hands leaving them feeling soft. As for the hand balm, it’s nourishing and the scent lingers for a very long time – so much so, we’ve had compliments on how nice we smell.

  1.  £75 from Aesop.com
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Fitbit inspire 3 activity tracker

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  • Best: For fitness fanatics

This discreet activity tracker makes a great gift for a mother-in-law who is interested in her health and well-being. Despite the small size of the screen, it’s easy to read thanks to the colour OLED display, so she won’t need to squint or reach for her glasses to see her scores.

As well as step count, it records heart rate and comes loaded with 20 pre-set activities from walking to swimming so that she can track distance covered, speed and more. There are also features designed to help her relax and wind down, including guided mindfulness sessions and breathwork routines, which she can access directly from the wrist.

For more recommendations, read our full Fitbit review

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Pomello elderflower aperitif

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  • Best: Aperitif

As the name suggests, spirit brand Pomello’s flagship aperitif is crafted using the citrus, grapefruit variety with elderflower from Sweden. Bringing together the sweetness of pomelos with the sharpness of the floral notes, the refreshing aperitif is a gently bitter alternative to aperol.

Just like the latter aperitif, this can create the base of many a favourite cocktail, from spritzs (simply add prosecco and soda) to margaritas (mix with tequila, fresh lime and honey). Coming in a sleek bottle, it’s perfect for mother-in-laws who love a tipple.

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Anisa Sojka chunky twisted bracelet

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  • Best: Edgy yet elegant accessory

For an extra-special jewellery gift, this gorgeous chunky bracelet is sure to wow on Christmas Day. The stainless-steel piece is plated with 14K gold, and it comes in 18cm and 20cm sizes. It arrives presented in a long, slim jewellery box with a velvety interior and wrapped in tissue, offering a luxe aesthetic. The bracelet is quite heavy, but that does add to its robustness, while the fold-over clasp makes it feel secure. Whether worn with a party dress or paired with knitwear, this stunning piece of jewellery immediately catches the eye, and adds edgy elegance to any outfit.

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Papier le moderne leather 2024 diary

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  • Best: 2024 diary

You can’t beat Papiers diaries. Affordable, well-crafted and stylish, the brand’s 2024 range is ideal for gifting. The le moderne design comes in navy, burgandy, pine red and black, with the option for personalisation in either rose gold, gold or silver pressed foil fonts, for an extra thoughtful touch. The cover is crafted from upcycled leather and feels and looks luxurious, while there’s 96 pages inside for them to plan the year ahead, with a ribbon marker ensuring they don’t lose their place.

Offering a week and month view of 2024, there’s also a page for contacts and a mix of dotted, lined and gridded pages for extra notes. Plus, it also arrives nicely gift wrapped.

  1.  £40 from Papier.com
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Soho Home Nero dinner plate set, blue

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  • Best: For hosts

Inspired by the textures and interiors inside Soho House’s Barcelona outpost, this four-piece dinner plate set is handcrafted in Portugal and oozes luxury. Crafted from durable stoneware, the plates are dishwasher and microwave-safe and impressively lightweight, which makes them perfect for hosting.

The contrasting natural bottom is detailed with the Soho House emblem while the surface is finished in a glossy and matte reactive peacock-hued blue glaze. Elevated by speckles and tonal variations, the design is intended to mimic the Mediterranean Sea. Decadent yet practical, it’s a surefire way to impress your mother-in-law (and all their future dinner guests). Make sure to sign up for restock notifcations.

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M&S cake stand

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  • Best: For star bakers

Any keen baker needs a suitable stand on which to display their Bake Off-worthy creations. If your mother-in-law is known for whipping up Victoria sponges, chocolate gateaux and the like, this domed glass design will ensure she can show them off in style. The cloche lid doesn’t feel too heavy, and the classic form will look smart in any kitchen or dining room. We think it would look great as a festive centrepiece, too, adorned with sprigs of holly and used to house the all-important Christmas cake or a mound of mince pies. Even if your giftee tends to opt for shop-bought rather than homemade cakes, this stand is bound to go down a treat. Sign up for restock notifications.

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Tammam Amazon scarf

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  • Best: Eco conscious gift

Tammam has been flying the sustainable fashion flag since 2007 creating handsewn bespoke gowns reminiscent of couture houses of the past. This collab with the European Space Agency uses images of Earth from Space on luxe sustainable materials, including silk, cotton or embellished options on either fabric (embellished silk for extra gift points). The scarf shows an image of the Amazon River running through the rainforest. The idea behind the collection is to get people talking about climate change. The perfect gift for mother-in-laws who care about the planet.

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The verdict: Gifts for mother-in-laws

For some, a mother-in-law might be the hardest person to buy for. But there’s plenty of inspiration here. Whether she’s style conscious or simply enjoys practical gifts, we think Tartan Blanket Co’s oversized scarf will be a real hit. If she’s sporty, wow her with a Fitbit, if she’s a host with the most, she’s bound to love the frilly Lepelclub tablecloth, and if she’s into sprucing up her interiors, Astrid Wilson’s Copenhagen print will be pride of place on her wall. Rest assured, all of the present ideas here are bound to impress.

Looking for something for your mother figure? Read our review of the best gifts for mum

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