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Annette Bening reveals unusual reason she initially turned down Hope Gap role

'I couldn't make it work as a film,' said actor

Ellie Harrison
Saturday 05 September 2020 10:30 EDT
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Annette Bening has revealed she initially turned down the role in her latest film, Hope Gap, because she “thought there were too many words”.

The American Beauty actor, 62, plays a woman whose husband suddenly leaves her after 30 years of marriage in the movie.

She told the PA news agency: "I thought it was really strong and original, painful, very well-written, but I couldn't make it work as a film because I thought there were too many words.

“The director, Bill Nicholson, had written me a beautiful and very thoughtful letter and talked about how it was based on his own life, and my instinct at the moment was, ‘I cannot tell this man that I think there are too many words, that is rude and presumptuous, so the better thing to do is just to pass.’"

After initially rejecting the offer, she realised she had made a “stupid” decision and decided to call him. "I told him my concern, and he said, 'Of course, don't worry'. He's a very charming man, and so we ended up meeting halfway in New York and we just went from there."

The movie is based on the real-life experience of the British film-maker, who was a young man when, after three decades of marriage, his father announced he was leaving his mother for another woman, triggering a family crisis.

Bening's role is based on his mother and she said: "I like how impossible she is, I love that.

“I feel like this is what women have been complaining about in terms of storytelling, that we want women to be written in the way we somehow can identify.”

She added: “Grace is a model of someone who is responding to a crisis in a way that is so particular and in total denial to such a degree I can look back and can laugh because she's so irrational and that is the way life presents itself at times.”

Hope Gap is in cinemas and on Curzon Home Cinema now

Additional reporting by PA

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